writing and weed

You both like writing.

You: Hi, I'm Adam. 24. What's a good question? Or what should we talk about?

Stranger: Hiya I'm 24 too

Stranger: and idk. i'll talk about pretty much anything

You: ok?

Stranger: lol

Stranger: Oh, I'm Mai btw. Hiya Adam

You: Nice, short time

Stranger: short time?

You: *name

Stranger: Ah. Yeah, i guess

Stranger: idk blame my mom lol

You: But it's a good name

Stranger: Yeah. Well, apart from people normally pronouncing it wrong

You: Let me try: Mai

Stranger: Not like tons of people know how to pronounce vietnamese names right lol

You: =)

Stranger: Well, that's typing it haha. not real, pronunciation involved

Stranger: idk type it like how you think it sounds and i'll tell you if you got it right :P

You: awww, do you WANT me to be wrong?

Stranger: haha it'd be cool if you got it right

You: My

Stranger: Nice!

Stranger: got it rigth

You: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v46TDEpm0SY

Stranger: right*

You: lol

Stranger: lmfao did you look up a pronunciation guide?

You: yes

You: lololol

Stranger: lol that's totally cheating

You: I know ;)

Stranger: now, if you hadn't though, i bet you'd have said May, right?

Stranger: i mean, props on bothering to check haha

You: I don't know

You: I didn't even think to try

Stranger: I'm in writer, i can appreciate the research skills lol

You: =D

You: What do you write?

You: specifically as possible

Stranger: fiction mostly. I'm working on my MFA in creative writing right now

Stranger: well, specifically as possible, if you're into genre stuff or something that's easy to do. not so much if you like postmodernism and minimalist writers lol

You: Hemingway?

Stranger: that's old stuff

You: What's another big minimalist?

Stranger: he wouldn't really fall into that category

Stranger: raymond carver would, certainly

Stranger: my favorite's Amy Hempel

You: I'll look into them

Stranger: Hemingway is more just a "sparse" long form writer

You: I have a vague idea of a book I want to write

Stranger: well, write it then

Stranger: research, jot ideas down, then do it

You: maybe in like 10 years

Stranger: why that long?

Stranger: most books take a while, but not 10 years

You: I think I partly want to get better at piano and something else

Stranger: 3-5 is pretty realistic though

You: I mean until I start =J

Stranger: lol

Stranger: idk hearing people say like, "when i get around to writing" is sorta like, how i'd get annoyed hearing people say in undergrad workshops, "i love writing but i hate reading"

Stranger: like, wtf?

You: WTF!

Stranger: ikr

You: that don't make any sense

Stranger: if you don't like reading you have no business being a writer

You: well, they'll just churn out shitty writing

Stranger: you at least should like reading just for the self interested part of wanting to know what's out there, but even that's a shit reason

Stranger: ikr

Stranger: ugh one thing i like about grad school. some people are better than others, but no one's bad

You: yes, I've thought that too

You: hmmm, somewhat insightful

Stranger: well, by the time you're working on an MFA, you sorta weeded out the bad writers lol

You: Talking to you just made me realize I could go onto grad school in a different profession

Stranger: some might just end up teaching, but at least they "get it" even if they're not great at it

You: haha

Stranger: yeah. i mean, i got my BA in English Lit, so my MFA is pretty logical for me

Stranger: but yeah, no reason you can't change fields

You: one guess my major now?

Stranger: music?

You: electrical engineering

Stranger: ugh

You: lol, music

You: I guess you're logical

Stranger: well, you mentioned the piano

You: Yes.

Stranger: engineering, that's just too much math for me. and i'm fucking asian haha

You: lololol

Stranger: well, idk 1/2 white so my white 1/2 is just really really bad at math lol

You: =)

Stranger: you still working on your bachelors or?

You: So I was just collaboratively writing a group lab report yesterday. And I noticed how this other EE student was super redundant (among other obvious bad writing in the report)

You: Yes.

You: Struggling to finish

Stranger: LMFAO you mean like too many adverbs?

Stranger: i hate cliche language too. like, "time passed slowly like glaciers" like....come on! second draft that shit lol

You: haaaa

Stranger: right?!

You: Engineering students, I suppose, think that more words is better on reports

You: One professor grades harshly against it

You: But his red marking are futile among the other profs

Stranger: lol well, idk writers can too though. i mean, david foster wallace is my all time favorite writer, and he's not exactly known for "short works" LOL

Stranger: idk english like, like, essays and stuff, those get overly verbose for sure

Stranger: fiction's different though

You: damn, I'm jealous of your lit. knowledge

Stranger: lol

Stranger: idk one of my prof's teased me that "light reading" to me is re-reading "Gravity's Rainbow" LOL

You: 'Lengthy, complex, and featuring a large cast of characters'

You: Ok, I'm just a dumb engineering student girl

Stranger: that quote could apply to GR or IJ

You: meaning who?

Stranger: the 'Lengthy, complex, and featuring a large cast of characters'

Stranger: that thing you said. That quote could apply to DFW's "Infinite Jest" or Pynchon's "Gravity's Rainbow"

You: Ok

You: It was the second sentence of what Wikipedia has

Stranger: for which one?

You: Gravity's Rainbow

Stranger: GR?

Stranger: yeah, i figured

Stranger: but like i said, it could apply to both

Stranger: well, and my prof saying that, what makes it fun is like, there's english professors out there who haven't been able to get through "GR"

Stranger: funny*

You: well, I know philosophy undergrads who really don't know philosophy

You: *I knew

Stranger: well, but that's philosophy students

Stranger: GR is like, famous for really smart people having trouble getting through it, it's just a really hard book. idk philosophy majors....i feel like with some of them, they just smoke too much weed and think it makes them deep

Stranger: i mean, i smoke a lot of weed, but at least i know it makes me dumber lol

You: haha, sounds like you got that from a book

You: but the last part makes be believe otherwise

Stranger: i dont think i'm profound when i'm stoned. i get i'm just horny and stupid lol

You: Question for you

Stranger: haha idk i've been bitching about philosophy majors i've know since i was like, 19

Stranger: sure, what?

You: what?? why

Stranger: why?

You: I don't know any philo majors anymore I guess

Stranger: you said you had a question for me so i said, sure, what is it

You: ya, what's the cost of having a constant supply of weed?

Stranger: honestly, i dont remember. my dealer's my f buddy. so my stuff's free

You: aw

You: lucky dog

You: that could never work out the other way around

Stranger: idk plus like, i'm not exactly an ugly chick so like, not hard just hanging out with someone and having him smoke me out

Stranger: haha i can agree with that

You: do you have facebook?

Stranger: yeah, i dont share it with people i dont know

Stranger: you seem interesting though, so i'd share my email if you wanna stay in touch

You: sounds about right

You: no thanks, I've done that before

You: but can never hold a conversation

You: unless you want to send me an actual letter

Stranger: idk if i meet someone on here, i just email with them and we meet back up on omegle to talk lol

You: from a PO box or whatever

Stranger: LMFAO!

You: =)

Stranger: meeting back up on omegle's easy. just have to put in a really weird interest

You: I have an interest that only matches like once a year

Stranger: what's that one?

You: but no thanks, too much planning

Stranger: haha

You: effective altruism

Stranger: i'm a writer, i plan shit out lol

You: someone actually said they're going to send me a letter tonight

Stranger: when'd you match up with that one?

Stranger: that'd be like me matching up on here with someone and my fav band

You: I don't remember when the last time was

You: do you put your fav band?

Stranger: i do but i've never matched up on here with it

Stranger: Pavement, btw

You: Jesus, that's more specific than mine!

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: at least on here

Stranger: idk irl i've met plenty of people who loved pavement

Stranger: but on here, never

You: That's cuz you hang around stoners

Stranger: or they liked them after i sent them a link

Stranger: some stoners like pavement

Stranger: while, white stoners lol

You: haa

Stranger: my f buddy's black so haha no way he knows pavement

You: haaa

Stranger: lol ikr

Stranger: haha probably yet another reason i'd never date him lol

You: haha, what?! that's kinda...idk

You: suppose I didn't see "another"

Stranger: oh haha idk sounds bad but i dont really date black guys

Stranger: i'll fuck someone but idk mostly just date white guys

You: what? why not??

You: I'd love to date non-white chicks.

You: Esp black chicks

Stranger: well, i mean, i love reading, writing, music, movies. idk i can be pretentious lol just, not too many black guys really have those sorta conversations to offer lol

Stranger: idk plus my "type" would be idk smart, funny, taller bearded white guys lol esp if i was gonna date someone

You: ok, let me go back a minute and erase that perspective from my memory...

You: I get it though

Stranger: and i'm not saying i'd NEVER date a black guy

You: Ya ya, I got it

Stranger: it's not like that. i just know my type, in general

You: Yes, I see

You: I think when I eventually end up in a large city, I'll make a rule to only date black women

You: Less dating, but I'd like that

Stranger: lol

You: Won't have to wonder about [blank] chick

Stranger: idk dating can be weird though. i dont do monogamy so, idk guys get jealous

You: ha, I bet

You: I've never been in that situation

Stranger: yeah idk. i

You: I think I'd want a polyamorous relationship

Stranger: l'll do emotional monogamy with a bf

You: But I don't know

Stranger: but sexually like, i expect us to both sleep with other people

You: Why do you expect him to?

Stranger: idk that's where i'm weird too poly like, doesn't quite agree with me

Stranger: i dont mind emotionally being with just one person. i just don't only wanna fuck him

Stranger: well, if he wants to, of course

Stranger: not like he has too haha

You: so not quite poly is what you're saying?

Stranger: yeah

You: ok, I think I get what you're saying

Stranger: poly is too much loving multiple people and idk if i can do that

You: haahahaha

Stranger: so i dont quite fit in that group

You: I've never laughed so much on Omegle

Stranger: haha thx

Stranger: rather you think i'm funny than weird

You: hmm, I'll decide that later

Stranger: well, or if weird some, at least you think it's funny lol

You: weird is most often good though

You: in my eyes

Stranger: most of the time

Stranger: not always lol

Stranger: and brb k? gotta pee

You: k

Stranger: th

Stranger: thx*

Stranger: back thx

You: no problem

You: Are you from Florida?

Stranger: no

Stranger: I'm from Arizona

Stranger: wbu?

You: Wisconsin

Stranger: cool

You: I looked into Amy Hempel

Stranger: my first two years of college were in michigan

Stranger: i hung out in milwaukee a couple times. that's a really fun city

Stranger: and?

You: REALLY?

Stranger: Amy Hempel's great. Check out her short story "The Harvest'

You: he teaches creative writing at the University of Florida.

Stranger: yeah really lol

You: *she

Stranger: she does? last i checked she was teaching in brooklyn

You: hey, Wikipedia doesn't lie.

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: welll......

You: =)

Stranger: i mean, she might now. i just hadn't heard about it

Stranger: I'd love to meet her. Reading her stuff got me into writing, i just had that whole, "you can write like this?!?!" moment reading her stuff

You: all that really matters is that she's alive and in the US

Stranger: ikr

Stranger: and if you wanna read her stuff it's easy, all her short story collections are included in her compete stories collection

Stranger: lol i am proud of my 1st edition copy of "At The Gates of The Animal Kingdom" though lol

Stranger: complete*

You: Have you read any Peter Singer?

Stranger: sounds kinda familiar, but no i havene't

You: that title reminded me of one of his works

Stranger: on my own lately i've been reading Karl Ove Knausgaard's "My Struggle" series of autobiographical novels

Stranger: and that's like, 3,600 pages so, takes a minute lol

Stranger: and i'm a fast reader lol

You: a long minute all right

Stranger: yeah

Stranger: they're pretty amazing though

Stranger: especially for a book basically that's "a Norwegian novelist writes about writing a super long novel about being a Norwegian novelist" LOL

You: lolol

Stranger: it's pretty amazing though. it's like a modern day "In Search of Lost Time"

Stranger: and i don't throw Proust out lightly

You: I keep wanting to say 'interesting'--but I came to believe to today that it's not a "real word"

Stranger: to me it always felt like the person was really saying, "I dont understand what you're talking about" and interesting is just the bestnicest word they could think of to say

Stranger: lol

You: ha, well that's part of it

Stranger: so i can appreciate you not just going: Interesting lol

You: I realized I really don't know literature like I thought I knew it

Stranger: idk the stuff they teach you in basic undergrad and hs is pretty lacking

Stranger: plus you just reread the same shit

Stranger: you really have to get into "true" contemporary lit and stuff

Stranger: like, the french oulipo movement of writers, they're fucking amazing

Stranger: and one sec k? Kafka's bugging me for food

You: k

You: great name for a pet

Stranger: backs

Stranger: haha and thanks!

Stranger: yeah, Kafka's my cat

Stranger: I think a husky named Nanook would be pretty perfect

Stranger: idk if you know your anthropology lol

You: I don't

You: but I looked it up

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: see?

Stranger: perfect name, right?

You: better than Sparky

Stranger: i think we've been chatting long enough you know i'd never have a pet named sparky lol

Stranger: that was funny though

You: ok, before you go

You: what's your favorite movies?

Stranger: well, favorite of all time is "Synechdoche NY"

You: bad grammar

Stranger: i really loved "Arrival" too

You: (me)

Stranger: the new Amy Adams one

Stranger: I turn my grammar nazi off on here so it's ok lol

You: ya, I do wonder how many things I actually don't catch

You: most I don't care to correct here

You: but still

You: Well, Ok.

Stranger: yeah

Stranger: in my writing like, i've obsessed over one sentence for like, 2 days before

Stranger: but on here for the sake of conversation, i don't obsess so much over what i write

Stranger: which is kinda cathartic

You: oh, ya I really wanted to ask you what, if any, websites you use

You: related to writing/reading

You: but mostly writing

Stranger: well, for publishing, duotrope is a good guide of what lit journals are out there

Stranger: as far as online that's about it. for writing, i just use my normal pages app, but i do use scriviner sometimes if i'm working on something more structurally complex

Stranger: and you just going cuz you're bored? or like, cuz you have to go do something?

You: I thought you were going

Stranger: me?

Stranger: no i'm free

Stranger: i thought you said you were

Stranger: i just said i had to feed my cat

You: " i think we've been chatting long enough "

Stranger: OH haha

Stranger: i didn't mean it like taht

Stranger: it was just a statement of fact you've prob gotten to know me well enough to know i'd never name a dog "sparky" or like, "rover" is all i was saying

Stranger: i wasn't being like, "fuck off" lol

You: ahahaha

Stranger: yeah haha

Stranger: all i was sayin

You: oh my god, I'm still laughing

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: lol trust me, if i'm chatting on here, i prob have some free time lol

You: it's the opposite for me

You: yet here I am time after time

Stranger: ah

Stranger: for me i'll take writing breaks sometimes and get on here

Stranger: so, i'm still typing so my fingers get a workout, and i can detach from whatever i'm working on

You: I think even if I was writing, it still would be hard to get back to 'work'

Stranger: idk i'm bipolar so if the mania kicks in i'm good to go LOL

You: ha, nice way to think about it

Stranger: well, either i'm super productive writing or just super slutty but idk

Stranger: either way it's fun LOL

Stranger: idk better than being depressed for sure

You: awhhh, you shouldn't say such things with a guy you'll never meet

Stranger: so saying like, i love giving head would be like, what? just mean?

You: yes!

Stranger: haha sorry. i couldnt help myself

You: then I have those thoughts

Stranger: idk

Stranger: i can't talk

Stranger: i get on here sometimes when i'm horny

Stranger: only pob is i hate talking to someone who's stupid so i still wanna know the other person is 1/2 way smart before we talk about any sex stuff

You: haa

Stranger: and that's a fucking challenge on here

You: cha!

Stranger: not talking about sex of course, i mean the 1/2 way smart part lol

You: you think you have it bad

You: well, actually, you have it worse

Stranger: on here? yeah for sure

Stranger: just going to the store? fucking a

You: cuz most just disconnect when they find out I'm another guy

Stranger: i mean, i'd be a bitch to say like, "i dont like being attractive" i do, esp sometimes, but like, getting yelled at going to buy smokes from a guy in a car, that shit is annoying as fuck

Stranger: yeah. i def don't get that with you guys

Stranger: even if i am horny and get on here to chat like, if someone interesting with a serious chat comes along, i'm into it

Stranger: and i dont give a shit if it's a guy or girl

Stranger: but you guys, maybe not you, but some guys on here, like, obsess over the other person's gender

Stranger: and idk

Stranger: i dont get it

You: I'm pretty sure this is not their reason, but conversations with women are usually more intelligent

You: And the ones that aren't just don't get very far in the conversation before they disconnect

Stranger: i really wanna agree with that haha but yeah, i don't think that's the reason lol

Stranger: omg ikr! like, you'll appreciate this. i saved this talk just cuz it made me lol so hard

Stranger: You're now chatting with a random stranger. Say hi!

You both like College.

Stranger: M

You: good for you. i'm not

Stranger: I can tell already cunt

Stranger has disconnected.

Stranger: had that one the other day LOL

You: lolololol

Stranger: right??!?!

Stranger: plus in my head the guy just saying hi with "M"

Stranger: what i hear in my head is "MAALLEEE!!!!"

Stranger: and it just makes you guys seem dumb lol

You: I agree. I don't get why they do it on the chat side

Stranger: seriously

Stranger: i'm not gonna say hi going like,-

Stranger: I PEE SITTING!!!

Stranger: oh, and i'm 24

Stranger: like, why would i do that?

Stranger: lol

Stranger: it's sooo fucking dumb

You: maybe it's a sociology sort of deal

You: they see most others doing it

Stranger: lol idfk what it is

You: so they think that's the way to go

You: cattle to the slaugherhouse

Stranger: i normally say taht to the guy too, then depending on his response, i MIGHT keep talking

Stranger: LOL ikr

Stranger: ugh i can't conform like that

Stranger: i mean, some like, subcultures are stupid too, cuz they say they don't wanna conform but wear the same shit lol

Stranger: and that's funny but idk. at least punks have better music haha

Stranger: same with hipsters lol

You: ya

You: I kinda want to disagree somewhere

You: we're being too agreeable

Stranger: haha it's hard to, isn't it ? lol

Stranger: haha well, can be

Stranger: and idk

Stranger: i'm weird but like, i can also go to parties and stuff and get along ok there

Stranger: so idk i can sorta mingle ok i guess

Stranger: LMFAO

You: that's all it takes

Stranger: granted, like, not gonna lie

You: the belief

Stranger: being an attractive female does have it's advantages there

Stranger: people sorta ignore if you're weird

Stranger: or girls certainly get the "you're too smart" thing

Stranger: i've never thought that about a guy

You: I don't know how guys are thought of as attractive

Stranger: but in general idk, at least i'm gonna get asked out lol

Stranger: idk depends on the girl. i know for me like, personality is the biggest thing though

You: ok, well, I know some who are definitely ugly

Stranger: i mean, physically there's things i like, but if someone's really smart and funny like, i'll mess around with him and even if i dont think he's attractive idk i can get into it

You: Ya, that makes sense

You: I asked a similar question to a group of friends (females), and they said odd things

You: "I'd like him to be able to do farm work"

Stranger: haha course idk if i should share this but like, i lost a bet once and had to blow this really fat friend of mine, and nothing about him turned me on, obviously lol but like, idk the act of doing it, cuz i like giving head was still fun, and idk a weird part of my head got into cuz like, it was "dirty/slutty" thing to do etc. so idk

Stranger: LMFAO never thought about a guy doing farm work haha

You: what was the bet?

Stranger: lol it was really stupid

Stranger: some skeeball thing hanging out at dave and busters and i suck at skeeball so idk why i even agreed

You: he initiated it?

Stranger: idk i think girls are more empathetic though. like, that guy, he hadn't had a blowjob in like, 3 years so idk, part of me felt good about that

You: ya, the altruism of it

You: altruistic bj

Stranger: haha i think more drinking initiated it lol

You: lol

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: thinking about it like that, i've def giving plenty of altruistic blowjobs lol

You: lolol

Stranger: well

Stranger: and idk

Stranger: a blowjob isn't sex so like, it's more just fun to do/turn on etc and not as personal

Stranger: so like, idk if a guy takes me out for like, food i really like but i'm not into him, i'll still prob give him a blowjob just idk cuz it's fun

You: damn, I also wish I hadn't heard that

Stranger: haha sorry

You: because I have no doubt other girls think the same thing

You: and I like to guess what others are thinking about

Stranger: idk i'm slightly stoned and kinda horny so haha my bad if i ramble about sex stuff at all haha

You: na, it's fine

You: just better to not be specific about yourself

You: like your body

You: or whatever you said up top

Stranger: well, and i'm sure you're right. plus idk sexually i think girls are just way more givers than guys are

Stranger: up top where? the most i told you about me is i'm 1/2 white and 1/2 asian lol

You: more givers in the bedroom?

Stranger: well, like, look at blowjobs?

You: I mean, I'd guess most guys are inexperienced with getting women off

Stranger: we give those al lthe time. and, i dont really even like having a guy eat me out but like, we def offer to give head way more than you guys ask to go down

You: wait what??

Stranger: well idk if that's totally it. but a good amount of guys like, with sex, it's more just they cum too fast so we dont get to orgasm too

Stranger: i mean like, i think guys talk more about like, "i love getting a woman off" you guys say that more

Stranger: as far as one gender, and i'm generalizing of course, but, if one gender gets the other off more, it's certainly us girls getting you guys off more

Stranger: and again, i am generalizing

You: no, I agree to that generalization

Stranger: yeah exactly

Stranger: and idk like with blowjobs. i like knowing what i'm doing is making that guy cum

Stranger: i think girls are way more likely to think like that and like, truly enjoy making the other person happy

You: I'm still reeling over the Altruistic Blowjob

You: But why don't you like being eaten out?

Stranger: LOL

Stranger: oh, i do like it with girls

Stranger: just, not so much with guys

Stranger: idk i've had a lot of guys go down on me but like, only 2 got me off and it took forever

Stranger: every girl i've had go down on me, and that's way less girls than guys, but all of them made me come. idk just a lot better at it lol

Stranger: plus you guys have rougher faces down there lol

You: oh, ya

Stranger: haha now, a guy's fingers? love those :) lol

You: note to self....

Stranger: idk i'm bi but like, apart from getting eaten out i like everything else more with a guy

You: ok, one friend refuses to have anything sexual with the same gender ~ this Catholic gal

You: but now I have some ammo

Stranger: ugh

You: girls eat out other girls better

Stranger: my freshman year rommie was this uber christian bitch

You: just locally makes sense

Stranger: haha well they do

Stranger: and a lot make out better

You: ...in the utilitarian calculus, if you've got some guys and two girls: always have the girls make out...cuz it's more pleasure all around

Stranger: haha plus like, i had a guy bite my clit once, that shit would NEVER happen with another girl lol

Stranger: haha oh that's true

Stranger: not like i've ever been in that situation of course.....

Stranger: ;P

You: why did he do that?

You: was he curious or what?

Stranger: idfk

Stranger: just out of reaction i kicked the shit out of him in his collar bone

Stranger: idk why he did it though

You: lol

Stranger: i mean, can't blame me

Stranger: not like you'd like if i bit your dick

Stranger: and it's not like a clit ISN'T sensitive lol

Stranger: so idk why

You: exactly

You: curiosity killed the ca...sex drive

Stranger: lol

Stranger: yeah. that sorta killed the mood haha

Stranger: plus like, i'm a small person

Stranger: but i used all 115lbs of me to kick him lol

Stranger: idk plus it did make me cry a little just out of reaction and that's always awkward

You: wo, that's never happened to me

Stranger: you guys are the best when we cry lol

Stranger: areNT*

You: that would be super awkward

You: um, ya

Stranger: yeah it really was

You: if that happens, what should we do

Stranger: idk that time and i had a time the guy just came insanely fast and i couldnt stop laughing. def 2 awkward times i remember lol

Stranger: sounds silly but cuddling works lol

You: hahahahaha

Stranger: and i'm not even like, super emotional for a girl

Stranger: but in taht moment, yeah

Stranger: idk now the guy who bit my clit, yeah. if he'd gone to cuddle me, that would have been weird thoguh

Stranger: haha here's a good answer for you

Stranger: if i'm just crying, yeah, give a cuddle

Stranger: if i'm pissed off and crying? do NOT try to cuddle lol

You: ya, that's really good advice

You: I've not been in a situation where we're about to fuck and she's mad

Stranger: idk if i analayze myself, after i'm pissed off any crying, cuddling can be fine, but once i'm not pissed off anymore

You: here's a question

You: what if they don't get you wet?

Stranger: before sex?

You: and you're going for penetration

Stranger: honestly, before i fuck a guy i always get him off with a blowjob

Stranger: so that always makes me wet

You: oh, I don't like to get blowjobs

You: just demeaning a bit in my mind

Stranger: how?

Stranger: i love giving head

Stranger: i dont think it's demeaning

You: ya

You: I got that

Stranger: i mean, having the guy try to fuck my face is annoying

You: but for some girls...

Stranger: but just letting me do my thing and give him head, i dont see how that's demeaning

Stranger: idk i know for some of my friends, them giving head is basically the same thing as you guys trying not to cum too fast duriing sex

You: just some girls make it seem like a chore

Stranger: well yeah

Stranger: not every girl like giving haed

You: I don't know how else to descirbe it

Stranger: plus some girls do like, legit hate how cum tastes

You: this may be an odd question after that

You: but have you ever been heart broken?

Stranger: lol

Stranger: sorta

Stranger: but not like, crazy broken hearted no

Stranger: idk normally once we broke up there were problems so i wasnt stupid upset about it

You: I haven't, I just wonder that; I have a best friend back home that was/is crazy heart broken

Stranger: and idk in hs with bf's like, now i'm clean on how i dont like monogamy but i hadn't worked it out in my head in hs, so i just ended up being bad about cheating

You: Even to this day, three years after, he posts memes about cheating

Stranger: yeah

Stranger: i get it def hurts people a lot.

Stranger: idk dating now i just tell the guy upfront i'm not willing to fuck just one person before we're even dating, so not like i didn't say it upfront

Stranger: but idk

Stranger: no one's smart in hs lol

You: exactly, I told him, that was a high school relationship

Stranger: yeah seriously

Stranger: seems important at the time but in hindsight....

Stranger: and idk as an adult, i've dated guys i was really into, but like, the jealousy/possessive stuff would always come up, so when we did break up, i wasn't like, devastated about it cuz i was annoyed at the possessiveness

You: well shit, now I really want to bring that up if I ever get in an actual relationship

Stranger: which part?

You: I'm all about that anicha

You: freedom from attachment

Stranger: agreed

Stranger: and i don't mean emotional attachment totally, but like, someone being possessive sucks

Stranger: idk plus like, even though i'm open about sex, if i am dating a guy, i'm gonna make sure i keep my bf happy, so he's not really got anything to complain about

You: ya. harder to bring up as a guy like me though

Stranger: like, if i'm out at a party and give someone a blowjob, and i come home to my bf's place, and he's just sitting around, like, even if i'm tired, i'll give him head too or well fuck. so like, it's not like i'm going to go out with someone else and mess around but ignore him

Stranger: haha yeah

Stranger: idk too many girls who agree with me on htat one lol

Stranger: while being single, yeah, they agree with me on being open sexually/how it's stupid girls get a double standard wtih sex etc

Stranger: but with dating yeah, most of them would slap their guy if he was like, "we should fuck other people" lol

You: haa

You: well, if I ever have the balls to bring it up, it won't be like that

Stranger: idk they might do a threesome with a girl and their guy but like, hah idk i think all girls we're all sorta bi so we're more open to that haha

Stranger: but like, with that she'd be there

Stranger: lol yeah really

You: This might mesh: "The very act of separating themselves from the rest of the world, to have the fuller enjoyment of each other’s society, implies that they prefer one another to all the world."

Stranger: i like that a lot

You: ~ A Bachelor's Complaint

Stranger: plus, you like the other person enough not to put constraints on them

Stranger: plus like, humans arent naturally monogamous

Stranger: that's mostly just religion's influence

Stranger: well, and the fact girls have spent most of our history being preggers 24/7 and if we were sleeping around the father didn't know if he was the father. it's just like, prehistoric leftover taboos

Stranger: it doesnt make sense though if you think about it

You: lol

You: preggers

Stranger: lol

Stranger: idk i never want kids so i'd rather say preggers than pregnate